How to get “TV children” out of the way
With more and more single children today, school holidays have become a headache for parents, and some parents have been surprised to find that their children have become slaves to television.
These “television children” have a great dependence on television. Except for sleeping time, almost all their vacations are spent in front of the television. Every TV program will not be “missed” and the advertisements will be enjoyed.
And even if parents are unwilling, there is nothing they can do, and exhaustion of almost every means will not work.
Parents’ concerns are not unreasonable. Too heavy dependence on television will inevitably lead to a series of problems, which will have an inestimable adverse effect on the child’s physical and mental health, which will cause the child to become psychologically lonely and more likely to suffer from television autism.Depression, sentimentality, lack of energy, and taciturn speech.
According to data, children with this autism are reluctant to leave the television, neither to talk to others nor to participate in activities. They have poor interpersonal skills and cannot integrate into real life.
They are lonely, shy, emotionally unstable, lack common sense in life, lack learning ability, and cannot adapt to society.
However, due to poor interpersonal relationships, lonely people fall into loneliness and depression. Not only is their heart painful, but their spirits will be depressed and decadent.
This resulted in a vicious circle, which not only greatly reduced the child’s ability to adapt to society, but also inhibited his thinking activities, resulting in unresponsiveness and reduced learning efficiency, with serious consequences and disastrous consequences.
There is no doubt that children should be kept away from TV, and how should they be kept away from TV?
Jackie Chan ‘s parents are anxious.
The bell must be tied, and parents have the responsibility.
Parents can help their children overcome computer autism and escape from autism.
“Heart disease requires a heart medicine doctor”. To do it in detail, parents also need to start with the details.
Parents should be good at observing, discovering the child’s lonely psychological trend in time, and find out countermeasures and put into action as soon as possible.
For example, parents should set aside a certain amount of time to communicate and communicate with their children after work every day; they should strictly control the time that their children watch TV; they should choose health programs that are appropriate for their age; they can also accompany their children to watch TV and explain them in a timely and appropriate mannerTV content to help children understand and ask the child to repeat some content so that the child can get rid of the TV as soon as possible.
In addition, parents should set an example by watching or not watching TV as little as possible, so as not to affect their children’s normal life. They should spend as much time with their children as possible to divert their children’s attention to TV through storytelling and games.Guide children to participate in some meaningful outdoor sports, and appropriately expand the children’s social circle, so that children contact more people around them.
For children with strong self-discipline, parents can also let the children develop a feasible learning plan, and then let the child live purposefully according to the established plan, and then keep them away from TV.
It is especially important to focus on improving the relationship between children and those around them, and to help children actively interact with others to expand the scope of communication. In particular, attention should be paid to harmonizing the relationship between children and relatives and classmates, to meet the needs of children’s love and belonging, so thatIt fully feels the warmth of family and collective, so that it feels psychologically safe and comfortable in life, so as to eliminate its alertness and integrate it into the normal life circle.
The relationship should be from easy to difficult, and the circle should be from small to large. You can first let the child associate with some relatives, and then with friends other than relatives; from a certain classmate, to a friend of this classmate, and so on, And gradually expand the scope of their interaction, so that children out of the closed self.
The emergence of “television children” not only indicates the improper family education in the past, but also poses challenges for future family education.
It is particularly necessary and urgent to change unscientific education methods and create a good learning and living atmosphere for children.
This not only requires parents to give their children a harmonious and democratic family atmosphere, but also requires parents not to overspoil their children and not to keep their children at home for long periods of time for safety.
You must know that people are society, society is the best place for people to live, and nature is the best healing agent. The only way is to support children to communicate with others and encourage children to participate in social activities so that they know the wonderful and fun life.Where it is, the child will naturally escape the dependence on TV and let them feel the joy of life everywhere.